Robine Mandersloot

Who this is for

You've spent years being fair to everyone but yourself.

This may fit your situation if:

You're living between cultures, places, or roles, and the rules around closeness, guilt, and respect don't mean the same thing to everyone involved.
One relationship, a parent, partner, in-law, or someone at work, keeps leaving you off balance.

And it may fit how you feel if:

You understand the situation, but you still feel stuck in it.
You feel guilty right after setting a reasonable boundary.
You keep explaining yourself to someone who does not really want to understand.
You're tired of asking "is it me?" and want a steadier place to think.

This kind of pattern rarely stays contained. It starts costing you elsewhere too — your energy, your other relationships, your sense of yourself.

You do not need to be in crisis to ask for support. We start by making sense of the pattern, not by judging the relationship.

About me

I'm Dutch, living in Zürich, married to my Indian husband, and a mother. My own life sits inside the kind of complexity I coach through: different cultures, different rules about closeness, guilt, and respect, all under one roof.

I have a background in psychology and health science, and I'm trained in trauma-informed coaching. I'm drawn to the relationships that are hard to explain from the outside but deeply destabilizing from the inside: a parent who never quite hears you, a partner conversation that leaves you doubting yourself for hours, the friend who quietly drains you.

We do not rush past the nervous system. We do not force clarity while you are overwhelmed.

I don't believe in quick positivity, and I don't believe in staying in the story forever. I believe in seeing clearly, trusting what you already sense, and choosing your next move with more steadiness. You do not need to prove that it was "bad enough."

Background: Psychology & Health Science · Certified Trauma and Resilience Life Coach, Arizona Trauma Institute · Based in Zürich, working internationally

My approach

We start small. Not with "fix your whole life."

We start with what is actually happening, then build from there.

01

Stabilize

What needs to calm down first? If you are overwhelmed or running on empty, we start here.

02

See clearly

What is actually happening? We name the pattern: what is said, what is implied, what gets denied, and what happens after you set a limit.

03

Trust yourself

What do you already know? We work with the part of you that has been noticing more than you have allowed yourself to trust.

04

Set the line

What needs saying, and what does not? We find the smallest clear boundary and prepare for what may come next.

05

Choose direction

Who are you becoming when guilt no longer runs the show? We look at the next grounded step, not from fear, pressure, or obligation, but from clarity.

Clarity is not cruelty. A boundary is not a punishment. It is information about what you will and will not participate in.

Coaching options

Start small. You don't need a whole program to get a clear next step.

Prices shown in Swiss francs. Booking and payment are handled securely via Calendly, which processes payment in EUR. The CHF amount is the fixed rate; the EUR amount at checkout may vary slightly with the daily exchange rate.

Free Clarity Call 20 min

A short call about what you're dealing with, and whether working together makes sense. No pressure.

Free

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Single Clarity Session One-off

For one specific thing: a conversation to prepare for, a decision to untangle, a boundary you're unsure how to hold.

CHF 50 founding rate

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4-Session Clarity Package Most common

Understand the pattern, rebuild self-trust, and leave with a real plan: what to say, what to drop, how to prepare.

CHF 180 founding rate, all 4 sessions

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Ongoing Coaching By arrangement

For deeper or repeated dynamics, in any relationship, worked through at a pace that's sustainable.

Priced after your first call

Next step

You don't have to figure this out alone.

The first step is small, on purpose.

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20 minutes to talk through what is going on and see if this is a good fit. No obligation either way.

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Prefer to write first? hello@robinemandersloot.com

Verified credential

Trained and certified through a recognized program.

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Good to know

Coaching, not therapy

Coaching is not therapy, diagnosis, or crisis care. My work supports reflection, clarity, self-trust, boundaries, and next steps. It's trauma-informed, but it doesn't diagnose or treat mental illness. In a crisis, or if you need clinical care, therapy is the better next step.

Legal

Policies and terms

Privacy Policy

Last updated: 29 June 2026

Who this applies to

This policy explains how Robine Mandersloot ("I", "me") collects and uses personal data through robinemandersloot.com and the booking tools linked from it.

I am based in Zürich, Switzerland. If you are located in the EU, the UK, or Switzerland, this policy is written with the General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR) and the Swiss Federal Act on Data Protection (FADP) in mind.

What I collect, and why

Contact details. If you email me or fill in a contact form, I collect your name and email address to respond to you.

Booking and scheduling data. When you book a call or session through Calendly, Calendly collects your name, email address, and any answers you give to intake questions, on my behalf. I use this information to prepare for and conduct our session. I am the data controller for this information; Calendly processes it as my data processor, under their own Data Processing Addendum.

Payment information. Paid sessions are processed through Calendly's integrated payment provider (Stripe). I do not see or store your card details directly — these are handled entirely by Stripe and Calendly.

Cookies. This website itself does not set tracking cookies. However, the Calendly booking widget linked on this site may set its own cookies when you use it, for scheduling functionality and, where applicable, with your consent under GDPR. Calendly displays its own cookie notice on its booking pages.

How long I keep your data

I keep session notes and booking records for 12 months after our last session, after which they are deleted, unless you ask me to delete them sooner. This does not apply to invoices and payment records, which Swiss law requires me to retain for longer, regardless of this policy.

Who else sees your data

Calendly (scheduling and payment processing)
Stripe, via Calendly (payment processing)
Google Workspace (my business email)

I do not sell your data, and I do not share it with anyone else for marketing purposes.

Your rights

Under GDPR and the Swiss FADP, you have the right to:

Ask what personal data I hold about you
Ask me to correct inaccurate data
Ask me to delete your data, where I'm not required to keep it for legal or contractual reasons
Withdraw consent at any time, where consent is the basis for processing

To exercise any of these, email hello@robinemandersloot.com.

Changes to this policy

I may update this policy from time to time. The "last updated" date at the top will reflect the most recent version.

Contact

Robine Mandersloot · Zürich, Switzerland · hello@robinemandersloot.com

Coaching Terms & Cancellation Policy

What this covers

These terms apply when you book a coaching session or package with Robine Mandersloot, whether the free Clarity Call, a single session, the 4-Session Clarity Package, or ongoing coaching.

Coaching is not therapy

Coaching is not therapy, diagnosis, or crisis care. This work supports reflection, clarity, self-trust, boundaries, and next steps. It is trauma-informed, but it does not diagnose or treat mental illness. If you are in a crisis or need clinical mental health treatment, therapy or emergency support is the more appropriate next step.

Pricing and currency

Prices are shown on the website in Swiss francs (CHF). Booking and payment are processed through Calendly, which currently settles payment in EUR. The CHF amount is the reference price; the EUR amount charged at checkout may vary slightly with the daily exchange rate.

Current pricing includes a limited-time founding-client rate, available to the first 5 clients or for the first 2 months from launch, whichever comes first. This rate applies to sessions or packages already booked at that rate, even if the founding-rate window closes before all sessions in a package are completed.

The 4-Session Package, specifically

Booking the 4-Session Clarity Package through the website covers payment for all 4 sessions upfront. The booking link itself reserves only the first session; the remaining 3 sessions are scheduled directly between us after the first session.

Cancellation and rescheduling

24 hours' notice or more: you may reschedule at no charge, as availability allows.
Less than 24 hours' notice, or a missed session without notice: the session is considered used and is non-refundable.
I will give the same 24-hour notice if I need to reschedule a session, and will offer the next available time at no cost to you.

Package validity

Sessions within the 4-Session Clarity Package are valid for 6 months from the date of purchase. Unused sessions remaining after this window are not refunded, except at my discretion in genuinely exceptional circumstances.

Ending the coaching relationship

You may stop coaching with me at any time. Sessions already completed are non-refundable. For unused sessions within a paid package, refunds are available minus a 20% administrative fee, reflecting the time already spent on onboarding and preparation.

Confidentiality

What you share in our sessions is kept confidential, except where I am legally required to disclose it (for example, where there is a risk of serious harm to you or someone else), or where Swiss law otherwise requires disclosure.

Contact

Questions about these terms can be sent to hello@robinemandersloot.com.

You've spent years being fair to everyone but yourself.